Saturday, June 19, 2010

Blessings and Support Beyond Belief

HALFWAY THROUGH CHEMO
Nicole finished her second round of chemotherapy this week, but you'd never know it by looking. She looks far better than most people you would meet on the street! Not to be fooled - she has other chemo treatment symptoms, but overall she says she feels better than during her previous battles. In meeting with the Physician's Assistant for a short examination prior to this latest treatment, we were over-joyed to hear him say, "You really are doing very well!" We count our blessings.

LOVING KINDNESS AND SUPPORT
The vast outpouring of love and support has been likewise unexpected and appreciated.
  • Many friends, neighbors and ward members have been so helpful in bringing in dinner several evenings. What a huge help that has been, especially since Sharon's arm has been less than useful having had shoulder surgery and physical therapy in the middle of Nicole's difficulties. What wonderful chefs we are blessed to know!
  • On the evening before her most recent treatment, Nicole's niece Hillary, spent the evening reminiscing and visiting and then left to return home to her husband in Mapleton. A few minutes later she texted me to ask if I thought it would be okay if she went to treatment with us the next morning. She wondered if it would be agreeable with Nicole. Nicole would love it! There were undoubtedly things Hillary had to give up to be able to spend the entire day in support of her aunt. It was delightful listening to the two of them chat and laugh and discuss "life's lessons" together. (They look and act more like sisters than aunt and niece!)
  • Friends and neighbors have been more than helpful. Nicole and Frank have appreciated the dinners, treats, cards, calls and financial support. A real surprise came recently in the mail from anonymous friends in the form of a thoughtful note and a cashier's check for $500. Unbelievable! They were so touched.
  • That same day, a kind neighbor on Elm Street mentioned that he hadn't seen Frank and Nicole very much lately and asked it everything was all right. When Frank said that Nicole had cancer and they were spending time at her parents' home, he asked to help. He brought huge equipment and cleaned up the large, unlandscaped section of their property.
  • For some time, Nicole has gone to the same young woman to get her hair cut. When Nicole called Shelbie to "get it cut short before it all falls out," the stylist, who was expecting her first baby any day, didn't even hesitate. She insisted on coming to our home and would take no compensation for her service. And Nicole's hair is simply adorable!

    People are truly amazing!

7 comments:

  1. Sharon & Nicole, SOO glad you are updating a blog on Nicole's treatment! I am so sorry to hear that Nicole is going through this all over again, but she is strong, in spirit, mind, and body and such an amazing example to us all! We send our love and prayers and hope to see you all soon. Lots of love, love Kwa (Kristy & family).

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  2. Love to Nicole and all of you. Thank you for the information and please know that our warmest thoughts are with her. Loving you all,
    Zimmermans

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  3. Thank you, Sharon, for this wonderful blog. You are an excellent writer and explain things so well. I feel so happy for Nicole that she has you right there to support and care for her. I wished I lived closer and could help in some way while Nicole goes through treatments. Sending lots of prayers and love your way! Love, Becky Langford (Oregon)

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  4. Hi Nicole and Sharon, the blog is wonderful - informative and sensitive. Thaanks for all the details. Nicole, we are keeping you in our thoughts and really are so amazed at your staminau and willingness to do you what you must to to heal. We send our love and an invitation to come down for some R&R when u feel better. Peggy and Gary

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  5. Thanks for sending this on to me. And I thought getting old was going to be rough. We pray for you and love you!

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  6. From the three Cavalheiros in Orem

    We send you our love, we keep you in our prayers, we exercise faith and hope in the plan of happiness ...all these supported by the blessings of the Atonement of Christ. La vita e bela!

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  7. Nicole I have been thinking of you often and want you to know how awesome it is to hear how you are doing. Hang in there with Dr. Litton he is really a good guy! He can have his moments, the staff and chemo nurses have been great to us this past two years. The PA's are really good to work with. What a great example you are, I know this is not easy! I wish the very best to you and your husband and your family. I know the Lord is mindful of these hard trials you are facing and will bless you for your service in Young Womens. Love, Jennifer Hall

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